First my very sincere condolences on the death of your unborn child. That is not something anyone should have to go thru. I am sincerely praying for Michelle's recovery and for protection for all the family as your grieve.
That said, as respectfully as I can I'm saying, you've exploited your father's death, the birth of your last 5 children and first two grandchildren and the near death of your 19th child (and wife) for financial gain. Do not, I repeat, do not give us a 'very special' episode with the miscarriage and funeral. Do not do it.
Michelle has been thru enough. So have your kids. Do not force your kids again into a "right response" moment of having to mourn what they may not yet be able to understand. Note, I am not saying not to have a funeral or not to grieve. Just tell TLC to take the cameras home. Give your family a break and let them grieve in private like normal people. You might even want to hire some security for the event so you CAN have privacy. I trust the people of Westboro Baptist and other groups will not protest at your doorstep, either. No one needs that at a time of grief.
We get the point that this was a child not a choice. We get it. Really. We don't need to be shown a group of scared little kids and coerced teenagers trying to thank God for saving their mother, or for asking him why their new sister or brother couldn't live to be born. Let them do this in private.
Yes, you'll lose possibly more money than I make this year. It will be worth it.
I am sincerely praying for everyone in your family right now--this is a difficult situation for any family. Somethings are best left alone. This is one of them.
The choice is yours. But remember:
Dignity is priceless.